Random thoughts……..

Attractive women get a lot of attention.

In fact, for an attractive woman, attention can actually become a DRUG.

I have personally known and dated some very attractive women and I can vouch for the fact that the most attractive women seem also to be the most INSECURE women when it comes to their attractiveness.

Illogical?

Maybe.

But think about it this way.….

If you’re an unusually attractive woman, your looks become your IDENTITY.

Everyone that meets you mentions your looks.

Every guy you date tells you how beautiful you are.

Every day, everywhere you go, you have people talking about how you look.

But MORE importantly, the more you hear it and the more you think about it, the more you begin to realize that there are OTHER women that are MORE attractive than you.

Since “appearance” is the topic that’s always coming up, you’re always thinking about it.

If a woman with a bigger chest walks by, you immediately think “maybe I’d be more attractive if I had a bigger chest” and you feel insecure.

If a thinner woman walks by, you think that maybe you should be thinner.

If a woman with a different color hair walks by, you wonder if your hair is the right color.

This kind of ‘competition’ triggers INSECURITY every single time it happens and it happens constantly.

Trust me.

This kind of thing gets WORSE the MORE attractive a woman is…because the most beautiful women are often MODELS/DANCERS/ENTERTAINERS/ETC…and they get to go from one audition to the next…and see literally hundreds and hundreds of other “competitive” women that each have some feature that’s just a little “better” than theirs.

Now imagine what it’s like to be a woman with “average” or above average looks.

If your looks are on such a scale, you don’t seem to hear about them so much.

Your looks aren’t the topic of every conversation.

Your looks aren’t your “identity” the way they are for the most beautiful women….[according to whom???]

And since you don’t think about your looks as much, and don’t talk about your looks as much, you don’t feel that much deeper insecurity often felt by an extremely attractive woman.

Reality can be pretty weird sometimes.

It’s different for each of us.

You can put a beautiful woman in a room with 100 guys who all think she’s the hottest thing they’ve ever seen… but she’ll still feel like “nothing special” and she might feel like she looks horrible that evening.

All the compliments she hears will roll off her like water rolls off a duck’s back and she will be thinking about how one of her girlfriends just got a boob job and how insecure she feels now because guys look at those new boobs a lot……[oh how shallow you might say…..]

The reality of THE situation is that very few women have the “whole package”.

The combination of looks, personality, + emotional stability, and intelligence is RARE.

This is where moll=e makes her grand entrance…..violently swinging in on jungle vines like the Amazon woman she is…..fofl…..

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