How do I think?

First, I think that each person is responsible for objectively assessing how he/she got into a [dire] situation in the first place.

Second, I think that having identified the personal failings that contributed to that particular situation, the person then busies himself/herself in repairing those defects.

And most of all I think that every person should fight the fights that can be won, extract settlement terms for the fights that cannot be won, and exercise a little wisdom to differentiate between the two.

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this reminds me of…….balance, energy, flow, passion and the melding of the heart and mind, thus forming a union……….