[my reply]
it is not that people specifically change over varying amounts of time, they just revert back to their true persona…..

they are undoubtly fake….only concerned with the immediate subtle reality in which they can capture their prey based solely upon their infatuation, only to realize later that they prefer dereliction to forthrightness.

this does not mean that people do not mature and develop more mentally, physically and emotionally, but this should enhance one’s character, personality and identity. this should not considerably change the person you “are” or once “was”.

only when one has a direct correlative sense of themselves, can one fully realize the true makeup of the nature of life that surrounds them.

[quote from “DaGGa”]
Do you think there is that special someone out there for each of us and we will (hopefully?) meet them someday?

Your thoughts …..

[my reply]
what many people fail to comprehend in modern times is that there are dozens of “the ones” out there for them. [tis a fact whether you realize it or not]

humans just tend to focus on their immediate surroundings, foregoing the fact that the world is enormous and filled with several billion people and 1000’s of square miles.

[quote from “chewd0g”]
Marriage has no meaning, deep commitment, or sincerity. I mean come on, if gays can get married what stand does marriage have against anything legitimate??

[my reply]
perhaps, with the word [remember it is just a word, however, it holds great significance] love being thrown around so easily these days it is sometimes difficult to differentiate the real from the surreal. but what does being gay and “in-love” have to do with the legitimacy of such emotion?

[quote=”lectrokutie”]
id like to think there is someone perfect for me, i hope so.

[my reply]
there is no such thing as perfection dear.

[quote from “elysium02”]
i think i’ve reached a point in my life where i don’t really care if i’m alone for the rest of my life…..i’m active..i make myself happy…and if someone just happens to come into my life that fits the mold i’m looking for…then so be it……

[my reply]
methinks i admire your perceptiveness…..

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one outlook i believe many people should scrap is the unconscious sense (and act) that one needs to fill a (negative?) void within themselves with the positive corresponding capacity of another’s genuine “substance”. this is what i call sucking my soul and essence. [keep away] please accept yourself and who are, i beg you.